Do's and Don'ts of ordering wine
I was having dinner at the bar of a high-end Italian restaurant in Washington, D.C., when the bartender handed me a hefty wine list. Feeling overwhelmed, I asked him to choose something for me.
“I like bold reds,” I told him.
What he must have heard was: “Pour me two glasses of wine at $25 apiece without informing me of the exorbitant price.”
Not all servers are out to “upsell,” of course, but my costly blunder could have been avoided had I not been afraid to engage in a deeper conversation about my wine preferences.
Sommeliers say that not asking the right — or any — questions is often the biggest mistake diners make when ordering wine.
“Choosing a wine is not a multiple-choice exam with right and wrong answers,” says Bianca Bosker, a certified sommelier and the author of “Cork Dork,” a book about her intensive 18-month immersion in the world of wine. “People are embarrassed to ask questions about wine because they feel like they should know more about it than they do.”
Determined not to make a similar mistake again, I sought the advice of pros on the do's and don'ts of ordering wine:
Don't: Be shy about your budget
“A price range is always one of the most helpful things to know as a sommelier, because it narrows down the options,” says Eric DiNardo, sommelier and beverage director for Schlow Restaurant Group.
If you're embarrassed to admit your price range in front of your companions, Bosker recommends pointing to a bottle on the menu: “A good sommelier will pick up on your hint and won't suggest a $150 bottle if you're indicating something that's $50.”
Do: Spring for a bottle
If you and a dining companion are on the same page in terms of flavor, it makes economic sense to order a bottle. “Wines by the bottle are always the better price,” says Justin Logan, co-owner of Ruta Del Vino in D.C., adding that the price of four glasses of wine often equals the cost of a bottle, which yields five glasses.
Do: Ask for a sample before committing to a glass
Most restaurants are happy to oblige when you ask to sample a wine before committing to a glass. If it's not to your taste, you should feel no pressure to order it.
On the other hand, if you've ordered a full bottle, your options are more limited.
“When you're given a taste after ordering a bottle of wine, you are not testing if you like it, you're seeing if it's fundamentally flawed,” Bosker says. A bad or “corked” bottle will have hints of mustiness or wet rag, according to wine consultant Tom Madrecki.
To be safe, talk to your server about how the wine you have in mind tastes before ordering a bottle. For a deeper conversation, you could ask whether the restaurant has a sommelier.
Don't: Fall for the “gimme” wines
Most restaurants have what sommeliers refer to as “gimme” wines, Bosker says, or wines that are so familiar and popular that diners order them on autopilot — think New Zealand sauvignon blanc or a California cabernet sauvignon.
“If you order a gimme wine, you're going to pay a gimme tax,” Bosker says. “They're not a great value because restaurants know they will sell easily. Instead go with the wine from the grape you've never heard of from the region you can't pronounce. It might not be the cheapest of your options, but it will be a better value.”
Do: Take note of what's missing from the wine list
You can count on most restaurants to offer the usual suspects, such as the aforementioned “gimmes.” If the standards are nowhere to be found, there's probably a reason.
“Some places have a point of view with their wine list,” Bosker says. “They're leaving off some of these more obvious wines because they pride themselves on doing things differently.”
And if something isn't on the list, don't ask for it.
If you'd prefer to stick to what you know, tell your server what you normally drink, and they can recommend something in that ballpark.
Don't: Balk at prices
Often, the price you pay for a glass of wine is about the same as what the restaurant paid for the whole bottle. “A lot of people are like, ‘This is such a big markup, I could buy this at a wine shop for less,'” Bosker says. “But keep in mind you're not just paying for the 750 milliliters of fermented grape juice in the bottle. You're paying for the staff wages, for the insurance, the cost of laundering your napkin, the entire experience.””
Do: Tip appropriately
When ordering wine at the bar, the $1 per-drink tip suggestion doesn't always apply. “Tipping depends on what kind of establishment you're at,” says Kate Chrisman, the wine director and assistant manager at Vinoteca in Washington. “If you're sitting and eating and having a meal, I would say use the 20 percent structure” that uses the total bill as its basis.
Don't: Wear strong perfume if you're planning to drink wine
A wine's aroma is tied closely to its taste, which is part of the reason wine pros will swirl their glass and take a big sniff before taking a sip. That's why it's best to sample wine in unadulterated air.
Do: Download these wine apps
Introverts and antisocials rejoice: There are several apps that can help you choose a wine if you'd prefer to keep to yourself. Stacey Khoury-Diaz, who plans to open Dio wine bar in D.C. this year, recommends Wine Ring, which makes recommendations based on previous bottles you've liked.
Vivino, which lists ratings and suggested retail prices for wines, is also worth a download, especially if you want to make sure you're getting a good deal.