Letter to the editor: Not all disabilities are visible

I have nothing but respect for veterans. I have several in my own family, and applaud stores that have designated parking spots for those who have served our country.

But the letter “Veterans deserve ‘primo’ parking spots” (Nov. 9, TribLIVE) stating that handicapped spots should be given to those who deserve them misses a key point in the handicapped world — not every handicap can be “seen.”

I have had both hips replaced, a plate and screws in one arm, and arthritis that wears me down every day. I have a handicapped parking sticker in my car. Unless they have X-ray vision, no one can “see” my handicap.

Using a handicapped restroom stall is definitely easier for those with hip replacement — the commode is higher and it’s easier to maneuver. Because I don’t look like I went through months of physical therapy to enable me to walk doesn’t mean I don’t deserve to use a designated parking place or facilities.

I remember clearly being just off my cane, in a restaurant, and had to use the bathroom. Of course, I used the handicapped stall. Coming out, I was faced with a woman on a walker and her husband, glaring at me. If looks could kill, I would have died on the spot.

This letter is a reminder that not every handicap is visible — and please, keep the dirty looks to yourself.

Sonia Porco

New Kensington